Sa rol luan gjinia n\u00eb faktin n\u00ebse jemi apo jo konkurrues? N\u00eb realitet, gjith\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje karakteri, por le t\u00eb shohim se \u00e7far\u00eb kan\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb studiuesit. Konkurrenca mashkullore mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e dukshme n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri, por nj\u00eb studim i ri e sfidon k\u00ebt\u00eb, duke i konsideruar grat\u00eb si m\u00eb konkurruese me nj\u00ebra-tjetr\u00ebn. Studimi sugjeron q\u00eb n\u00ebn sip\u00ebrfaqe, konkurrenca fem\u00ebrore \u00ebsht\u00eb intensive, ndoshta edhe m\u00eb intensive se konkurrenca mashkullore n\u00eb disa kontekste.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7far\u00eb thot\u00eb studimi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Konkurrenca p\u00ebr k\u00ebto burime \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e shpesht\u00eb dhe kritike p\u00ebr grat\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa burrat nuk p\u00ebrballen me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin presion. Studiuesit sugjerojn\u00eb se kur burri p\u00ebrfundon aktin riprodhues, puna e tij “mbaron”, nd\u00ebrsa p\u00ebr gruan, ajo sapo ka filluar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb “konkurrenca intraseksuale”?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sipas teoris\u00eb s\u00eb p\u00ebrzgjedhjes seksuale, ky ndryshim shpjegohet me faktin se burrat investojn\u00eb m\u00eb pak n\u00eb rritjen e pasardh\u00ebsve sesa grat\u00eb, por ata kan\u00eb nj\u00eb rrezik m\u00eb t\u00eb madh p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos u riprodhuar fare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mos e b\u00ebni sepse do t\u00eb pendoheni, thot\u00eb shprehja e vjet\u00ebr. Burrat jan\u00eb biologjikisht m\u00eb pak t\u00eb rrezikuar nga p\u00ebrballja fizike dhe k\u00ebshtu favorizojn\u00eb konkurrenc\u00ebn e drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb dhe agresive. Grat\u00eb, n\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt, kan\u00eb nj\u00eb shans m\u00eb t\u00eb madh p\u00ebr t’u riprodhuar dhe m\u00eb pak p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar nga format e drejtp\u00ebrdrejta ose t\u00eb rrezikshme t\u00eb konkurrenc\u00ebs. Si rezultat, konkurrenca mashkullore \u00ebsht\u00eb e dukshme dhe burrat shihen si gjinia m\u00eb konkurruese.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7far\u00eb studimi tregon se besojn\u00eb ata p\u00ebr grat\u00eb<\/strong> Nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr studim i koh\u00ebve t\u00eb fundit, i botuar n\u00eb revist\u00ebn Nature, k\u00ebrkoi t\u00eb eksploronte k\u00ebt\u00eb konkurrenc\u00eb “t\u00eb heshtur” fem\u00ebrore. Studiuesit rekrutuan 596 pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebse nga tre vende, t\u00eb gjitha t\u00eb martuara dhe prind\u00ebr, t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs 25-45 vje\u00e7, dhe u k\u00ebrkuan atyre t\u00eb parashikonin se si do t\u00eb reagonin njer\u00ebz t\u00eb njohur t\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtit seks ndaj mbi 20 skenar\u00ebve, secili i lidhur me nj\u00eb burim t\u00eb vlefsh\u00ebm, ose t\u00eb dobish\u00ebm p\u00ebr grat\u00eb (p.sh., ushqimi, siguria) ose p\u00ebr burrat (p.sh., prestigji, pushteti).<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebsve iu k\u00ebrkua t\u00eb vler\u00ebsonin reagimet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve t\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtit seks dhe statusit martesor t\u00eb ngjash\u00ebm. Metodologjia synonte t\u00eb zvog\u00eblonte paragjykimin e vet\u00eb-raportimit, pasi pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebsit nuk po p\u00ebrshkruanin veten, por dik\u00eb si ato. Kjo sigurisht p\u00ebrfshinte rrezikun e gjykimit subjektiv ose stereotipik, por gjithashtu zbuloi rezultate t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A jan\u00eb grat\u00eb m\u00eb negative ndaj grave t\u00eb tjera?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Studimi i par\u00eb analizoi reagimet ndaj njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtit seks, i dyti shqyrtoi reagimet ndaj njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb seksit t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt. Rezultatet treguan se reagimet negative ndaj burrave q\u00eb kishin fituar burime ishin t\u00eb larta si tek burrat ashtu edhe tek grat\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr gra sesa burra than\u00eb se nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb nuk kishte nj\u00eb burim do t\u00eb reagonte negativisht ndaj nj\u00eb gruaje tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb zot\u00ebronte at\u00eb burim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ky negativitet nga grat\u00eb ndaj grave t\u00eb tjera u vu re n\u00eb shum\u00eb lloje burimesh: nj\u00eb pun\u00eb e mir\u00eb, bukuri, prind\u00ebr mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebs, ndikim shoq\u00ebror, sh\u00ebndet, nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi e mir\u00eb, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb mir\u00ebkuptues, paqe dhe sh\u00ebrbim ushqimi cil\u00ebsor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ting\u00ebllon pak stereotipike, apo jo? E v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb se nuk duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsojm\u00eb. Ideja q\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha grat\u00eb jan\u00eb konkurruese ose xheloze p\u00ebr nj\u00ebra-tjetr\u00ebn nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb asgj\u00eb e re. Studimet dokumentojn\u00eb disa raste, por shpesh, edhe pa asnj\u00eb prov\u00eb, shoq\u00ebria i sh\u00ebnjestron grat\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb k\u00ebtij supozimi. Por njer\u00ebzit jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm. Secili ka personalitetin e vet, ndjenjat e veta dhe kodin e vet t\u00eb vlerave. Le t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Asgj\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e zez\u00eb ose e bardh\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, le t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrohemi te thelb\u00ebsoret. Jo te kush \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb konkurrues, por te shnd\u00ebrrimi i konkurrenc\u00ebs n\u00eb loj\u00eb t\u00eb ndershme!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Sa rol luan gjinia n\u00eb faktin n\u00ebse jemi apo jo konkurrues? N\u00eb realitet, gjith\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje karakteri, por le t\u00eb shohim se \u00e7far\u00eb kan\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb studiuesit. Konkurrenca mashkullore mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e dukshme n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri, por nj\u00eb studim i ri e sfidon k\u00ebt\u00eb, duke i konsideruar grat\u00eb si m\u00eb konkurruese me nj\u00ebra-tjetr\u00ebn. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6126,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[521],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-7544","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-psikologji"},"yoast_head":"\n
Studimi, i botuar n\u00eb revist\u00ebn shkencore Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society B<\/strong>, ofron nj\u00eb shpjegim “biologjik” p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje. Ai pohon se grat\u00eb mbajn\u00eb barr\u00ebn e kujdesit p\u00ebr pasardh\u00ebsit, gj\u00eb q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon burime t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme p\u00ebr nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb kohore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Termi “konkurrenc\u00eb intraseksuale” p\u00ebrdoret nga psikolog\u00ebt evolucionar\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruar konkurrenc\u00ebn midis individ\u00ebve t\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtit seks p\u00ebr burime q\u00eb rrisin suksesin riprodhues. Megjithat\u00eb, thuhet se strategjit\u00eb e konkurrenc\u00ebs ndryshojn\u00eb sipas seksit. Kjo ndodh sepse lloji i konkurrenc\u00ebs q\u00eb u sjell dobi burrave \u00ebsht\u00eb i ndrysh\u00ebm nga ai q\u00eb u sjell dobi grave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe m\u00eb e mundshme n\u00ebse ata nuk mund t\u00eb demonstrojn\u00eb status t\u00eb lart\u00eb shoq\u00ebror dhe dominim, tipare q\u00eb konsiderohen t\u00ebrheq\u00ebse sepse tregojn\u00eb gjene t\u00eb mira dhe aft\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ofruar burime dhe mbrojtje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Psikolog\u00ebt evolucionar\u00eb kan\u00eb zbuluar se burrat rrisin suksesin e tyre riprodhues duke arritur status m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb shoq\u00ebror, nd\u00ebrsa grat\u00eb p\u00ebrfitojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb duke siguruar burime fizike dhe sociale, t\u00eb tilla si ushqimi i sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm, siguria dhe mb\u00ebshtetja sociale, t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb kritike p\u00ebr rritjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Konkurrenca p\u00ebr k\u00ebto burime \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb delikate dhe e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr t’u matur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n