T\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit jan\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb me personalitete e tyre , d\u00ebshira dhe mendime unike. Por t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi di\u00e7ka t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt. Nj\u00eb prej tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebrkimi i lumturis\u00eb. Kush nuk d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb buz\u00ebqesh\u00eb? Kush nuk d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb ndihet i plot\u00eb dhe i qet\u00eb? Kush nuk d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb g\u00ebzimi t\u00eb tejkaloj\u00eb pik\u00ebllimin? E n\u00ebse ajo q\u00eb sjell lumturin\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje personale, duket se ata q\u00eb e kan\u00eb \u201cpushtuar\u201d ndajn\u00eb disa karakteristika.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ata jetojn\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb tashmen<\/strong> T\u00eb jetosh n\u00eb momentin e tanish\u00ebm redukton stresin, rrit mir\u00ebnjohjen, rrit kreativitetin dhe aft\u00ebsit\u00eb sociale dhe \u00e7on n\u00eb mendime dhe shqet\u00ebsime m\u00eb pak “t\u00eb panevojshme”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ata shohin mund\u00ebsi n\u00eb vend t\u00eb problemeve<\/strong> E th\u00ebn\u00eb thjesht, njer\u00ebzit e lumtur jan\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb shohin di\u00e7ka pozitive n\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb u ndodh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ata e gjejn\u00eb lumturin\u00eb tek “t\u00eb voglat”<\/strong> Mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb dielli n\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn e tyre \u00e7do m\u00ebngjes kur zgjohen, rroba t\u00eb sapo lara me er\u00eb myshku, koh\u00eb me miqt\u00eb, nj\u00eb vakt i mir\u00eb, nj\u00eb filxhan kafe\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sipas studimeve, nuk jan\u00eb ngjarjet “e m\u00ebdha” si nj\u00eb promovim q\u00eb sjellin lumturi, por vler\u00ebsimi i g\u00ebzimeve “t\u00eb vogla”, t\u00eb papritura q\u00eb p\u00ebrb\u00ebjn\u00eb pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb koh\u00ebs son\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ata nuk fokusohen n\u00eb t\u00eb mirat materiale<\/strong> Ata admirojn\u00eb dhe njohin t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt<\/strong> N\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, ata motivojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, krijojn\u00eb nj\u00eb atmosfer\u00eb pozitive dhe p\u00ebrhapin dashuri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ata shkojn\u00eb m\u00eb tej<\/strong> N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebshkojn\u00eb veten dhe t\u00eb ndjejn\u00eb keqardhje p\u00ebr veten e tyre, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb ankohen dhe t\u00eb zhyten gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb thell\u00eb n\u00eb pik\u00ebllim, ata pranojn\u00eb se ajo q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb. Sigurisht q\u00eb do t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb trishtuar, sigurisht q\u00eb do t\u00eb l\u00ebndohen. Por, ata do t\u00eb ken\u00eb forc\u00ebn t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrohen p\u00ebrs\u00ebri n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb arsyeshme n\u00eb t\u00eb tashmen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ata ofrojn\u00eb bujarisht<\/strong> Dh\u00ebnia, sipas studimeve, aktivizon zonat e trurit q\u00eb lidhen me k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb, besimin dhe lidhjet sociale, duke u dh\u00ebn\u00eb njer\u00ebzve nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb lumturie dhe mir\u00ebqenieje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ata nuk flasin keq p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt<\/strong> Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb q\u00eb flasim keq p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt pas shpine, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb theksojm\u00eb t\u00eb metat dhe pasigurit\u00eb tona, duke hapur nj\u00eb rreth vicioz negativiteti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ata nuk faj\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt p\u00ebr gabimet e tyre<\/strong> T\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit jan\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb me personalitete e tyre , d\u00ebshira dhe mendime unike. Por t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi di\u00e7ka t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt. Nj\u00eb prej tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebrkimi i lumturis\u00eb. Kush nuk d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb buz\u00ebqesh\u00eb? Kush nuk d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb ndihet i plot\u00eb dhe i qet\u00eb? Kush nuk d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb g\u00ebzimi t\u00eb tejkaloj\u00eb pik\u00ebllimin? E n\u00ebse ajo […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5985,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[590],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-6921","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-shoqeri"},"yoast_head":"\n
Q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ata nuk ngecin n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn, as nuk shqet\u00ebsohen shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen. Ata e shijojn\u00eb plot\u00ebsisht “tani” dhe n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb jan\u00eb mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb ka kaluar dhe p\u00ebrballen me kuriozitet dhe emocion at\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb vij\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kur shfaqen probleme, njer\u00ebzit e lumtur nuk \u201cmbyten\u201d n\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi, por k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb zgjidhje konstruktive. Sfida p\u00ebr ta jan\u00eb mund\u00ebsit\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar. N\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, ata e kan\u00eb pranuar se jeta nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e leht\u00eb. V\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe d\u00ebshtimet q\u00eb vijn\u00eb, megjithat\u00eb, na b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb se m\u00eb par\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nd\u00ebrsa shumica prej nesh priren t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb lumturin\u00eb n\u00eb di\u00e7ka “t\u00eb madhe”, disa gjejn\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi n\u00eb gj\u00ebrat e vogla t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Njer\u00ebzit e lumtur priren t\u00eb mos e k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb vazhdimisht lumturin\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00ebn materiale. Ata nuk ndjekin vet\u00ebm \u00ebndrr\u00ebn p\u00ebr nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb madhe dhe nj\u00eb makin\u00eb, duke menduar se k\u00ebto do t’i b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur. N\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, ata fokusohen n\u00eb burimet e brendshme t\u00eb lumturis\u00eb q\u00eb lindin nga p\u00ebrvojat, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet njer\u00ebzore dhe element\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb thelb\u00ebsor\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur dhe ndihen mir\u00eb me veten e tyre, nuk kan\u00eb asnj\u00eb hezitim t\u00eb lavd\u00ebrojn\u00eb nj\u00eb person tjet\u00ebr, t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtesin ata q\u00eb i rrethojn\u00eb, t\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb. Bota nuk sillet rreth tyre dhe ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrulur. Ata nuk sulmojn\u00eb dhe nuk ofendojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb jet\u00eb, si\u00e7 tham\u00eb, gj\u00ebrat e k\u00ebqija ndodhin – ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb aq t\u00eb k\u00ebqija sa q\u00eb na duket e pamundur t’i trajtojm\u00eb ato. Dhe kjo vlen p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ne. Pra, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se njer\u00ebzit e lumtur kan\u00eb gjetur nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb parandaluar q\u00eb k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra t’u ndodhin atyre, por thjesht kan\u00eb gjetur nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb reaguar dhe p\u00ebr t’u marr\u00eb me to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Njer\u00ebzit e lumtur jan\u00eb njer\u00ebz bujar\u00eb. Ata gjejn\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi dhe p\u00ebrmbushje n\u00eb ndarjen dhe buz\u00ebqeshjen e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cMendjet e m\u00ebdha diskutojn\u00eb idet\u00eb. Mendja mesatare diskuton fakte. Mendjet e vogla flasin p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb\u201d, tha nj\u00eb her\u00eb Eleanor Roosevelt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Njer\u00ebzit e lumtur pranojn\u00eb se jan\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr veprimet e tyre dhe situat\u00ebn aktuale n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre. N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqen vazhdimisht t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb dik\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb faj\u00ebsuar, ata marrin p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi dhe veprime p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar jet\u00ebn e tyre p\u00ebr mir\u00eb, n\u00eb \u00e7do aspekt t\u00eb saj. Ata e din\u00eb se justifikimet nuk arrijn\u00eb askund dhe se i vetmi person n\u00eb bot\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb ndryshimin kuptimplot\u00eb p\u00ebr ta \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht\u2026 ata vet\u00eb!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"