Secili person ka nj\u00eb personalitet t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. Secili ka humorin e tij dhe mbart marr\u00ebzin\u00eb e tij n\u00eb nj\u00eb intensitet dhe frekuenc\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme. Dhe si qenie shoq\u00ebrore, njeriu ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr njer\u00ebz t\u00eb tjer\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mund t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb i lumtur dhe t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb momente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb gjesh njer\u00ebz me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt t\u00eb shoq\u00ebrohesh dhe t\u00eb kalosh mir\u00eb. N\u00ebse po flasim p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie apo miq\u00ebsi. Secili prej nesh rritet n\u00eb nj\u00eb mjedis t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm, me eksperienca t\u00eb ndryshme dhe merr stimuj t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm, ndaj i percepton gj\u00ebrat rreth tij n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e tij. Dhe kjo, sigurisht, \u00ebsht\u00eb bukuria e k\u00ebsaj bote dhe kontakti yn\u00eb me njer\u00ebzit. Mund ta imagjinoni sa e m\u00ebrzitshme do t\u00eb ishte jeta jon\u00eb n\u00ebse do t\u00eb ishim t\u00eb gjith\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, a duhet t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00eb me miqt\u00eb apo partner\u00ebt tan\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatemi? Sigurisht q\u00eb jo. Por duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb disa kritere q\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn t\u00eb kalojm\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb mos zihemi p\u00ebr gj\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Si\u00e7 e kam shkruar dhe m\u00eb par\u00eb \u201cne b\u00ebjm\u00eb pjes\u00eb aty ku mund t\u00eb shprehemi lirisht\u201d <\/strong>dhe n\u00eb vazhdim dua t\u00eb shtoj se ne i p\u00ebrkasim aty ku e kuptojn\u00eb humorin dhe \u00e7mendurin\u00eb ton\u00eb. Aty ku nuk b\u00ebhemi t\u00eb keqkuptuar dhe mund t\u00eb tregojm\u00eb an\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7mendur t\u00eb vetes, n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, pa u par\u00eb \u00e7uditsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Humori ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb edhe me IQ-n\u00eb e \u00e7do personi.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n Pra, me njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb kan\u00eb pak a shum\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin IQ, ne kuptohemi m\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe b\u00ebhemi m\u00eb t\u00eb kuptuesh\u00ebm. Kur ndajm\u00eb njohuri, p\u00ebrvoja dhe interesa t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta, kemi m\u00eb shum\u00eb tema p\u00ebr t\u00eb diskutuar dhe logjikisht m\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta q\u00eb do t\u00eb na b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb qeshim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nuk duhet t\u00eb ndihemi keq kur humbasim miqt\u00eb ose kur ndjenjat tona romantike nuk jan\u00eb reciproke. Nuk mund t\u00eb shkojm\u00eb mir\u00eb me t\u00eb gjith\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb e pamundur. Ashtu si\u00e7 nuk duam t\u00eb gjith\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb, disa njer\u00ebz nuk mund t\u00eb na durojn\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre. Ata mund ta shohin humorin ton\u00eb memec ose tep\u00ebr sarkastik, mund t’u duket \u00e7menduria jon\u00eb e pavlefshme. Mund t’u p\u00ebrshtatet pak ose shum\u00eb m\u00ebnyra se si duam. E nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nga ana jon\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nuk ka asnj\u00eb arsye p\u00ebr t\u00eb luftuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me njer\u00ebz me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nuk jemi t\u00eb pajtuesh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vet\u00ebm deri n\u00eb nj\u00eb pik\u00eb.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Deri n\u00eb at\u00eb pik\u00eb sa t\u00eb mos l\u00ebndohemi seriozisht ose t\u00eb humbasim veten p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Sepse n\u00ebse humbasim veten, at\u00ebher\u00eb asgj\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb mbetet tek tjetri nga ajo q\u00eb ai e donte fillimisht. Secili person ka nj\u00eb personalitet t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. Secili ka humorin e tij dhe mbart marr\u00ebzin\u00eb e tij n\u00eb nj\u00eb intensitet dhe frekuenc\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme. Dhe si qenie shoq\u00ebrore, njeriu ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr njer\u00ebz t\u00eb tjer\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mund t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb i lumtur dhe t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb momente. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb gjesh njer\u00ebz me […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":175,"featured_media":6035,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[521,590],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-6716","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-psikologji","8":"category-shoqeri"},"yoast_head":"\n
Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb momente. Dhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri q\u00eb na ka zhytur n\u00eb rutin\u00eb dhe mbijetes\u00eb, ne kemi nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb momente g\u00ebzimi dhe t\u00eb qeshurash t\u00eb nd\u00ebrsjella. Ne kemi nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb \u00e7menduri p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos u \u00e7mendur fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr fjal\u00eb. Ne kemi nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie q\u00eb rrjedhin m\u00eb leht\u00eb sesa t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira. Njer\u00ebz q\u00eb duan t\u00eb jen\u00eb pran\u00eb nesh dhe ta tregojn\u00eb at\u00eb, q\u00eb na pranojn\u00eb ashtu si\u00e7 jemi me t\u00eb gjitha t\u00eb mirat dhe t\u00eb metat tona.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"