T\u00eb gjith\u00eb duan v\u00ebmendje her\u00eb pas here. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb e natyrshme e njeriut q\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebshiroj\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00eb afirmim dhe lavd\u00ebrim. Sidoqoft\u00eb, nevoja p\u00ebr v\u00ebmendje sugjeron q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb funksiononi pa marr\u00eb v\u00ebmendje dhe v\u00ebrtetim nga njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb. P\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj nevoje, ju mund t\u00eb shfaqni sjellje q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendje p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen q\u00eb d\u00ebshironi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nd\u00ebrsa \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt\u00ebsisht normale t\u00eb k\u00ebrkosh v\u00ebmendje nga miqt\u00eb, t\u00eb dashurit dhe njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb i admiron, nj\u00eb nevoj\u00eb e vazhdueshme p\u00ebr v\u00ebmendje \u00ebsht\u00eb e pash\u00ebndetshme. Mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjithashtu nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb e nj\u00eb gjendjeje themelore t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetit mendor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Disa njer\u00ebz q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendje mund t\u00eb mos e kuptojn\u00eb se po shfaqin sjellje q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendje. K\u00ebrkuesit e v\u00ebmendjes shprehin d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e tyre p\u00ebr v\u00ebmendje n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb ndryshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Disa nga sjelljet m\u00eb t\u00eb zakonshme t\u00eb shfaqura nga njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr v\u00ebmendje p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shtrirja e pafuqis\u00eb: Nj\u00eb metod\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin njer\u00ebzit me sjellje q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendje \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb pretendojn\u00eb t\u00eb pafuqish\u00ebm n\u00eb situata q\u00eb jan\u00eb plot\u00ebsisht t\u00eb aft\u00eb p\u00ebr t’i trajtuar. Shtrirja e dob\u00ebsis\u00eb u jep atyre nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar v\u00ebmendjen e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shkaktimi i konfliktit: Shkaktimi i konfliktit n\u00eb publik ose privat p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar nj\u00eb sken\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen e atyre q\u00eb ju rrethojn\u00eb. Shpesh ata do t\u00eb duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb gjithashtu n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb konfliktit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ata k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb vazhdimisht simpatin\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve: Shembuj t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj lloj sjelljeje p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb mashtrimin e nj\u00eb l\u00ebndimi t\u00eb vog\u00ebl n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb familja dhe miqt\u00eb t\u00eb mund t\u00eb merren me ju. Ose shprehja e ndjenjave ekstreme p\u00ebr nj\u00eb humbje t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, si p\u00ebr shembull nj\u00eb \u00e7ant\u00eb e preferuar ose nj\u00eb pal\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00eb estravagante lekure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nevoja p\u00ebr t’u komplimentuar: \u00cbsht\u00eb normale t\u00eb d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb komplimentoheni. Sidoqoft\u00eb, nevoja p\u00ebr t’u komplimentuar mund t’ju b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb shfaqni sjellje jo t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme n\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar komplimente nga njer\u00ebzit. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb nevoja p\u00ebr komplimente lind nga pasigurit\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, peshkimi p\u00ebr komplimente \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb jo e sh\u00ebndetshme p\u00ebr t’u marr\u00eb me pasigurit\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
G\u00ebnjeshtra dhe zbukurimi i tregimeve: Krijimi i historive t\u00eb ekzagjeruara q\u00eb garantohen se do t’i b\u00ebjn\u00eb njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb reagojn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr se si mund t\u00eb sillen njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr v\u00ebmendje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shkaqet e sjelljes s\u00eb k\u00ebrkimit t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes
Nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb faktor\u00ebsh mund t\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb sjellje p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar v\u00ebmendje. Le t\u00eb hedhim nj\u00eb v\u00ebshtrim se \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb fshihet pas k\u00ebtyre sjelljeve:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pasiguri dhe vet\u00ebbesim t\u00eb ul\u00ebt
Pasigurit\u00eb fizike dhe emocionale mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb person t\u00eb zhvilloj\u00eb nj\u00eb personalitet q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon v\u00ebmendje. Nd\u00ebrsa mund t\u00eb duket e pad\u00ebmshme, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb jo e sh\u00ebndetshme p\u00ebr t’u marr\u00eb me pasigurit\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb r\u00ebndoj\u00eb gjithashtu marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet tuaja me familjen, miqt\u00eb dhe madje edhe t\u00eb huajt.1<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7rregullime t\u00eb personalitetit<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Nj\u00eb nga simptomat kryesore t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve me \u00e7rregullim t\u00eb personalitetit histrionik \u00ebsht\u00eb shfaqja e sjelljeve t\u00eb k\u00ebrkimit t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 reagimeve ekstreme emocionale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kushtet e tjera t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetit mendor, t\u00eb tilla , ankthi dhe \u00e7rregullimi bipolar, gjithashtu mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb person t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihet n\u00eb sjellje t\u00eb k\u00ebrkimit t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Si t\u00eb mos keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr v\u00ebmendjen e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve Puna p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar besimin tuaj dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb hequr qafe pasigurit\u00eb tuaja \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb hap i par\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm p\u00ebr t’ju ndihmuar t\u00eb mos jeni k\u00ebrkues i v\u00ebmendjes.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" T\u00eb gjith\u00eb duan v\u00ebmendje her\u00eb pas here. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb e natyrshme e njeriut q\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebshiroj\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00eb afirmim dhe lavd\u00ebrim. Sidoqoft\u00eb, nevoja p\u00ebr v\u00ebmendje sugjeron q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb funksiononi pa marr\u00eb v\u00ebmendje dhe v\u00ebrtetim nga njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb. P\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj nevoje, ju mund t\u00eb shfaqni sjellje q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendje p\u00ebr […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5985,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[521,523],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-6679","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-psikologji","8":"category-stres"},"yoast_head":"\n
Disa \u00e7rregullime t\u00eb personalitetit mund t\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb gjithashtu sjellje p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar v\u00ebmendje. Njer\u00ebzit me \u00e7rregullim t\u00eb personalitetit narcisist ose \u00e7rregullim t\u00eb personalitetit kufitar, n\u00eb ve\u00e7anti, shpesh shfaqin sjellje t\u00eb k\u00ebrkimit t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hapi i par\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos pasur nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr v\u00ebmendje \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb pranoni se po shfaqni sjellje q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendje. Disa njer\u00ebz q\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr v\u00ebmendje nuk e kuptojn\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb sjellja e tyre ose q\u00eb k\u00ebto sjellje jan\u00eb t\u00eb pash\u00ebndetshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n