Un\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb besoj se falja \u00ebsht\u00eb sh\u00ebrim. Kjo falje \u00ebsht\u00eb shlyerje, ajo lart\u00ebson dhe pushon shpirtin tuaj, pavar\u00ebsisht n\u00ebse merrni apo jepni. Mendoj se ka di\u00e7ka t\u00eb mahnitshme n\u00eb \u00e7lirimin e dhimbjeve t\u00eb tilla\u2014t\u00eb dish q\u00eb dikush t\u00eb ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb shans t\u00eb dyt\u00eb ose ka vendosur t\u00eb pranoj\u00eb faljen t\u00ebnde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Falja \u00ebsht\u00eb e fuqishme. Por ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri dhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, ne falim njer\u00ebzit e gabuar. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, ne lidhemi me njer\u00ebz q\u00eb na l\u00ebndojn\u00eb dhe mendojm\u00eb se duhet t’i falim ata p\u00ebr t\u00eb ecur p\u00ebrpara, p\u00ebr t\u00eb shp\u00ebtuar nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, p\u00ebr t\u00eb rregulluar at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb prishur, p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrballuar jetes\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn time, falja ka ndryshuar v\u00ebrtet jet\u00ebn time. Kam pranuar falje nga njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb shkat\u00ebrruar, kam falur edhe ata q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar \u2013 kam vazhduar m\u00eb tej \u2013 dhe m\u00eb ka sh\u00ebruar zemr\u00ebn n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra q\u00eb nuk i kam imagjinuar kurr\u00eb. Por nuk ishte e leht\u00eb. Dhe jo t\u00eb gjitha historit\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjta. Falja \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, sepse ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb dhemb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Por un\u00eb ende besoj se ka nj\u00eb fuqi t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb fshehur n\u00eb falje, sepse ajo na ndihmon t\u00eb \u00e7lirohemi nga pengesat tona, nga hidh\u00ebrimi dhe dhimbja. Por t\u00eb fal\u00ebsh dik\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ta lejojm\u00eb t\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb zemrat tona. Nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ne t\u00eb rihapim dyert e jet\u00ebs son\u00eb ose t’u ofrojm\u00eb atyre \u00e7el\u00ebsin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Falja nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ne duam ta mbajm\u00eb at\u00eb person n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb fal\u00ebsh dik\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ka tradhtuar. Mund ta fal\u00ebsh q\u00eb t\u00eb ka thyer zemr\u00ebn, q\u00eb t\u00eb ka braktisur n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb nevoje, q\u00eb nuk ka qen\u00eb prioriteti i tij n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb, q\u00eb t\u00eb ka l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb shkosh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Por kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ju i besoni p\u00ebrs\u00ebri k\u00ebtij njeriu. Falja nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb jeni i detyruar t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje ose martes\u00eb me dik\u00eb q\u00eb ka shkat\u00ebrruar themelet e asaj q\u00eb keni nd\u00ebrtuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Falja nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdoni t\u00eb jeni miq me personin q\u00eb ju tradhtoi, ose q\u00eb ende d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb shoq\u00ebroheni me an\u00ebtar\u00ebt e familjes q\u00eb kan\u00eb d\u00ebshmuar se mund t’ju refuzojn\u00eb her\u00eb pas here. Falja do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb pranosh t\u00eb keqen q\u00eb t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb, t\u00eb qet\u00ebsosh zemr\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb fillosh nga e para \u2013 me ose pa at\u00eb person kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb zgjedhja jote.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dhe duhet t\u00eb mbani mend di\u00e7ka:<\/strong> nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gabim ta falni dhe ta lini k\u00ebt\u00eb person n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn tuaj. Mos u ndjeni n\u00ebn presion p\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00ebndruar n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje me dik\u00eb q\u00eb ju ka \u201cthyer\u201d. Mos u ndjeni sikur duhet t\u00eb vazhdoni me nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb ka shkat\u00ebrruar thelbin e qenies tuaj. Un\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb besoj se falja \u00ebsht\u00eb sh\u00ebrim. Kjo falje \u00ebsht\u00eb shlyerje, ajo lart\u00ebson dhe pushon shpirtin tuaj, pavar\u00ebsisht n\u00ebse merrni apo jepni. Mendoj se ka di\u00e7ka t\u00eb mahnitshme n\u00eb \u00e7lirimin e dhimbjeve t\u00eb tilla\u2014t\u00eb dish q\u00eb dikush t\u00eb ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb shans t\u00eb dyt\u00eb ose ka vendosur t\u00eb pranoj\u00eb faljen t\u00ebnde. Falja \u00ebsht\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6061,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[521],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-6662","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-psikologji"},"yoast_head":"\n
Mos harroni se falja nuk ju b\u00ebn t\u00eb dob\u00ebt, por ju jep forc\u00eb. Forca t\u00eb mjaftueshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb ecur p\u00ebrpara dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb hequr dor\u00eb nga ata q\u00eb ju kan\u00eb l\u00ebnduar n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"