T\u00eb pakt\u00eb jan\u00eb ata q\u00eb p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre t\u00eb pad\u00ebmtuar, pa plag\u00eb t\u00eb thella dhe trauma. Por \u00e7far\u00eb ndodh me njer\u00ebzit n\u00eb profesionet e mjeksis\u00eb? Si ndikon trauma e tyre tek ata? Si mund t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si ata jetojn\u00eb, por edhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si zgjedhin t\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Carl-Jung flet p\u00ebr sh\u00ebruesin e traumatizuar si nj\u00eb shkrim i lasht\u00eb, dik\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb siguroj\u00eb nj\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb t\u00eb thell\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, q\u00eb ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb ndjeshm\u00ebri dhe dhembshuri dhe dik\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndaj\u00eb historit\u00eb e veta p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb kap\u00ebrcejn\u00eb problemet e tyre dhe t\u00eb sh\u00ebrohen.
N\u00eb realitet, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit vijn\u00eb n\u00eb kontakt me traum\u00ebn n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment. P\u00ebr ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb n\u00eb profesionet e sh\u00ebrimit, ai mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb pasuri apo edhe nj\u00eb forc\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb zhvilluar dhembshurin\u00eb. Kur jeni ball\u00eb p\u00ebr ball\u00eb me dhimbjen, jeni n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb kuptoni dhimbjen e tjetrit. Lidhja e nj\u00eb personi me plag\u00ebn e tij dhe udh\u00ebtimi i tyre personal drejt sh\u00ebrimit, \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb i ndihmon njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebrojn\u00eb plag\u00ebt e tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Por nga vjen kjo fuqi? P\u00ebrvoja e terapistit n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e sh\u00ebrimit t\u00eb tij ka fuqi t\u00eb madhe n\u00eb ndihm\u00ebn e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, ndoshta m\u00eb shum\u00eb se \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ne mund t\u00eb ofrojm\u00eb. B\u00ebhet nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ofruar shpres\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar se dikush ka kaluar n\u00ebp\u00ebr err\u00ebsir\u00ebn e vet dhe ka gjetur nj\u00eb rrug\u00ebdalje, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ka nj\u00eb rrug\u00ebdalje!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Koh\u00ebt e fundit shohim njer\u00ebz q\u00eb kan\u00eb r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb kontakt me situata t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira dhe i kap\u00ebrcejn\u00eb ato, duke ndar\u00eb historit\u00eb e tyre dhe n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit duke u b\u00ebr\u00eb burim frym\u00ebzimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Ata nuk duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb sh\u00ebrues. Koncepti i sh\u00ebruesit t\u00eb plagosur \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00eb kapacitet profesional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Koncepti i sh\u00ebruesit t\u00eb plagosur mund dhe po sh\u00ebrohet. Ai sugjeron q\u00eb ne mund t\u00eb marrim dhimbjen dhe p\u00ebrvojat tona m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqija dhe t’i kthejm\u00eb ato n\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e dobishme dhe sh\u00ebruese p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb mos jemi ende gati p\u00ebr t\u00eb, por sigurisht e kuptojm\u00eb potencialin e nj\u00eb ‘mjet’ t\u00eb till\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne duhet t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb thell\u00eb brenda vetes ton\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur forc\u00ebn p\u00ebr t’ua ofruar historin\u00eb ton\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve dhe ata nga ana e tyre mund t\u00eb marrin forc\u00eb prej saj. V\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb kemi p\u00ebrjetuar mund t\u00eb kthehen n\u00eb di\u00e7ka t\u00eb fuqishme dhe sh\u00ebruese dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebhen burim shprese p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb. K\u00ebto p\u00ebrvoja mund t\u00eb nxisin ndjeshm\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe d\u00ebshir\u00ebn ton\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, sepse ne e dim\u00eb se si \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jesh n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb keq. N\u00eb vitin e dyt\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet terapeutike p\u00ebr veten ton\u00eb, pasi tani do t\u00eb mund t’i shohim p\u00ebrvojat tona p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb lente t\u00eb re.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
T\u00eb pakt\u00eb jan\u00eb ata q\u00eb p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre t\u00eb pad\u00ebmtuar, pa plag\u00eb t\u00eb thella dhe trauma. Por \u00e7far\u00eb ndodh me njer\u00ebzit n\u00eb profesionet e mjeksis\u00eb? Si ndikon trauma e tyre tek ata? Si mund t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si ata jetojn\u00eb, por edhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si zgjedhin t\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb? Carl-Jung flet p\u00ebr […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6614,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[521],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6613","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-psikologji"],"yoast_head":"\n