Keni r\u00ebn\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb kontakt me njer\u00ebzit, duke u ndjer\u00eb i \u00e7uditsh\u00ebm n\u00eb pranin\u00eb e tyre, sikur d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb largoheni menj\u00ebher\u00eb nga hap\u00ebsira ku ata ndodhen? Ndiheni n\u00eb siklet apo nuk dini si t’i trajtoni, t\u00eb ngrir\u00eb apo t\u00eb mpir\u00eb nga forma e tyre?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebrisht se ata jan\u00eb agresiv\u00eb ose shtyp\u00ebs ndaj jush dhe si pasoj\u00eb ju zhvilloni k\u00ebto ndjenja p\u00ebr ta. N\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve ajo q\u00eb b\u00ebn diferenc\u00ebn \u00ebsht\u00eb energjia e \u00e7do personi, sa e err\u00ebt apo sa e ndritshme \u00ebsht\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt, disa her\u00eb t\u00eb tjera takojm\u00eb njer\u00ebz me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt duam t\u00eb kalojm\u00eb or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra, me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt koha kalon dhe humbasim ndjenj\u00ebn e koh\u00ebs, ku edhe disa minuta takim me ta mjaftojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb na b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje t\u00eb madhe n\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn ton\u00eb, e cila. marrim me vete edhe pas p\u00ebrfundimit t\u00eb takimit ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shtrihemi nat\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb fjetur dhe na vjen nd\u00ebrmend biseda konstruktive q\u00eb kemi b\u00ebr\u00eb me ta dhe e p\u00ebrs\u00ebrisim n\u00eb mendje, me at\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje q\u00eb na kthehet. Fjal\u00ebt e tyre p\u00ebrmbajn\u00eb p\u00ebrzem\u00ebrsi, mir\u00ebkuptim dhe ndjeshm\u00ebri, por kan\u00eb edhe vesh\u00eb “t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj” p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar, pa nxituar p\u00ebr t’u p\u00ebrgjigjur, sy “t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj” q\u00eb shohin aq thell\u00eb sa arrijn\u00eb n\u00eb shpirt dhe nj\u00eb zem\u00ebr “t\u00eb madhe” q\u00eb p\u00ebrqafon fort. Kaq shum\u00eb fuqi n\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u00ebta jan\u00eb njer\u00ebzit me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt duhet t\u00eb lidhemi dhe t\u00eb rrethohemi. T\u00eb marrim elementet pozitive t\u00eb karakterit t\u00eb tyre dhe m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e tyre t\u00eb t\u00eb shprehurit dhe t’i adoptojm\u00eb ato, bazuar n\u00eb karakterin dhe karizm\u00ebn ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sa do t\u00eb donim t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb ishim si k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz, kaq t\u00eb dashur dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, p\u00ebrkundrazi \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt\u00ebsisht e realizueshme dhe arg\u00ebtuese.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Her\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb do t\u00eb takohemi me nj\u00eb koleg, t\u00eb k\u00ebndsh\u00ebm ose jo, me nj\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrm, mik, partner etj., t\u00eb mos harrojm\u00eb t\u00eb zbukurojm\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb bukur me buz\u00ebqeshjen ton\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Gjithashtu, po aq e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb lini m\u00ebnjan\u00eb \u2013 do t’ju thoja q\u00eb t\u00eb hidhni m\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb koshin e plehrave, t\u00eb gjitha ankesat, v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe mendimet negative p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb shoq\u00ebrohemi me nj\u00eb person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Askujt nuk i p\u00eblqen t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb shoh\u00eb dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb zhytur n\u00eb mjerim, pa asnj\u00eb not\u00eb pozitive n\u00eb z\u00ebrin apo fjal\u00ebt e tyre. Askujt nuk i p\u00eblqen t\u00eb jet\u00eb i rrethuar nga njer\u00ebz q\u00eb do t\u00eb hapin goj\u00ebn vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb nxjerr\u00eb nj\u00eb tuf\u00eb informacionesh t\u00eb padobishme q\u00eb do t\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb ndjenja t\u00eb pad\u00ebshiruara dhe t\u00eb pak\u00ebndshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb nga m\u00ebnyrat m\u00eb efektive p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar nj\u00eb mashkull \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb tregosh interes p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Para s\u00eb gjithash, jini t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb, q\u00eb edhe ajo t\u00eb jet\u00eb e suksesshme. Pyetje t\u00eb tilla si, si jeni, si \u00ebsht\u00eb dita juaj, a po shkon gjith\u00e7ka mir\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj, cilat jan\u00eb interesat tuaja, \u00e7far\u00eb merreni, jan\u00eb pyetjet m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb mund t’i b\u00ebjm\u00eb nj\u00eb personi, t\u00eb kombinuara me t\u00eb pasur gjith\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen tuaj kur u p\u00ebrgjigjeni k\u00ebtyre pyetje. Kur p\u00ebrgjigja jon\u00eb at\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebrmban fjali t\u00eb bukura, pozitive dhe nj\u00eb val\u00eb lavd\u00ebrimi dhe inkurajimi t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb p\u00ebr personin q\u00eb keni p\u00ebrball\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb ne i kemi fituar tashm\u00eb ato.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse v\u00ebzhgojm\u00eb me kujdes rreth nesh, do t\u00eb zbulojm\u00eb se kudo ka t\u00eb mira, kudo ka pozitive, kudo ka bukuri. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ka gjithmon\u00eb komente t\u00eb bukura dhe motivuese p\u00ebr t’u b\u00ebr\u00eb atyre q\u00eb na rrethojn\u00eb, t\u00eb cilat do t’i b\u00ebjn\u00eb ata t\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Keni r\u00ebn\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb kontakt me njer\u00ebzit, duke u ndjer\u00eb i \u00e7uditsh\u00ebm n\u00eb pranin\u00eb e tyre, sikur d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb largoheni menj\u00ebher\u00eb nga hap\u00ebsira ku ata ndodhen? Ndiheni n\u00eb siklet apo nuk dini si t’i trajtoni, t\u00eb ngrir\u00eb apo t\u00eb mpir\u00eb nga forma e tyre? Nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebrisht se ata jan\u00eb agresiv\u00eb ose shtyp\u00ebs […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3650,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[590],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-5065","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-shoqeri"},"yoast_head":"\n