Koh\u00ebt e fundit \u00ebsht\u00eb folur shum\u00eb p\u00ebr konceptin e introversionit, nj\u00eb koncept q\u00eb mund t\u00eb argumentohet \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb sinonim i periudh\u00ebs s\u00eb distancimit social q\u00eb po kalojm\u00eb. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00eb ata q\u00eb me t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar direktiv\u00ebn se duhet t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb koh\u00eb pa kontakte shoq\u00ebrore, u b\u00ebn\u00eb ankth dhe merak, por t\u00eb shumt\u00eb ishin edhe ne q\u00eb ndjenim nj\u00eb af\u00ebrsi relative n\u00eb kushtet aktuale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Introvert\u00ebt dhe aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre unike jan\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruar nga autorja Susan Cain, n\u00eb [Shit\u00ebsja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb e librit “Quiet Power – The Hidden Abilities of Introverted Teens”]:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Por \u00e7far\u00eb jan\u00eb introvert\u00ebt? \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb term psikologjik q\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruan n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi ata q\u00eb k\u00ebnaqen me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, por q\u00eb u p\u00eblqen edhe t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb koh\u00eb vet\u00ebm. Ata jan\u00eb v\u00ebzhgues. Ata mund t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe t\u00eb flasin m\u00eb pak. T\u00eb jesh introvert do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ke nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb brendshme intensive dhe e konsideron t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme at\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb brendshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse nj\u00eb introvert \u00ebsht\u00eb dikush q\u00eb shikon nga brenda, nj\u00eb ekstrovert \u00ebsht\u00eb sakt\u00ebsisht e kund\u00ebrta. Ekstrovert\u00ebt shk\u00eblqejn\u00eb n\u00eb grupe dhe marrin energji nga t\u00eb qenit me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Edhe n\u00ebse nuk jeni vet\u00eb introvert, me siguri ka disa n\u00eb familjen ose rrethin tuaj t\u00eb miqve. Introvert\u00ebt p\u00ebrb\u00ebjn\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb tret\u00ebn deri n\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb dyt\u00ebn e popullsis\u00eb \u2013 q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb nj\u00eb n\u00eb dy ose tre persona q\u00eb njihni. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb lehta p\u00ebr t’u dalluar. Jan\u00eb ata q\u00eb p\u00ebrkulen n\u00eb divan me nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr, tablet apo laptop n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb rrethuar nga njer\u00ebz. N\u00eb festa t\u00eb m\u00ebdha mund t’i shihni duke folur me nj\u00eb grusht miqsh – sigurisht jo duke k\u00ebrcyer n\u00eb tavolina. N\u00eb klas\u00eb ata ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb shikojn\u00eb larg kur m\u00ebsuesi pyet se kush d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb flas\u00eb. Dhe ata i kushtojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendje – ata thjesht preferojn\u00eb t\u00eb ndjekin n\u00eb heshtje dhe t\u00eb marrin pjes\u00eb kur t\u00eb jen\u00eb gati.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Her\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, introvert\u00ebt jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb fshehur natyr\u00ebn e tyre t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Ata mund t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb pa u v\u00ebn\u00eb re n\u00eb sallat e shkoll\u00ebs dhe n\u00eb kafenen\u00eb e shkoll\u00ebs, duke pretenduar se jan\u00eb ekstrovert\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa thell\u00eb brenda tyre d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb t’i shp\u00ebtojn\u00eb turm\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb koh\u00eb vet\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u00eb jesh introvert nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebrisht t\u00eb jesh i turpsh\u00ebm. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ndryshim i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm. Introvert\u00ebt mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb turpsh\u00ebm, sigurisht. Megjithat\u00eb, ka edhe ekstrovert\u00eb t\u00eb turpsh\u00ebm. Sjellja e turpshme mund t\u00eb duket si introversion – i b\u00ebn njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb duken t\u00eb qet\u00eb dhe t\u00eb turpsh\u00ebm. Ashtu si introversioni, ndjenja e turpit \u00ebsht\u00eb mjaft komplekse. Ai p\u00ebrmban shum\u00eb nivele. Mund t\u00eb vij\u00eb nga nervozizmi ose pasiguria p\u00ebr t’u pranuar nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mund t\u00eb vij\u00eb nga frika p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb gabim. N\u00eb klas\u00eb, nj\u00eb student i turpsh\u00ebm mund t\u00eb mos e ngrej\u00eb dor\u00ebn sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb i shqet\u00ebsuar se mos e marrin p\u00ebrgjigjen gabim dhe ndihet i z\u00ebn\u00eb ngusht\u00eb. Vajza introverte e ulur pran\u00eb tij mund t\u00eb mos e ngrej\u00eb dor\u00ebn p\u00ebr arsye t\u00eb tjera. Ai mund t\u00eb mos ndiej\u00eb nevoj\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb pjes\u00eb n\u00eb klas\u00eb. Ose ajo mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb e z\u00ebn\u00eb duke d\u00ebgjuar dhe p\u00ebrpunuar t\u00eb gjitha. Ashtu si introversioni, turpi ka avantazhet e tij.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Studimet kan\u00eb treguar se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e trembur priren t\u00eb jen\u00eb miq besnik\u00eb dhe t\u00eb ken\u00eb respekt p\u00ebr veten, dhembshuri dhe kreativitet. T\u00eb dy njer\u00ebzit e turpsh\u00ebm dhe introvert\u00ebt jan\u00eb d\u00ebgjues t\u00eb mrekulluesh\u00ebm. Dhe n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet k\u00ebsaj aft\u00ebsie ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb nivelet e v\u00ebzhgimit, t\u00eb m\u00ebsuarit dhe pjekuris\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Teksti i m\u00ebposht\u00ebm \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kujtes\u00eb e mir\u00eb e aft\u00ebsive t\u00eb tyre p\u00ebr introvert\u00ebt dhe thekson p\u00ebr ekstrovert\u00ebt se i huaji i heshtur n\u00eb zyr\u00ebn, apartamentin ose makin\u00ebn p\u00ebrball\u00eb ka shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb: ai thjesht preferon t\u00eb zgjedh\u00eb si dhe kur ta thot\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb temperament i heshtur \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb superfuqi e fshehur.
Ekziston nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr “njer\u00ebz q\u00eb jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb zhytur n\u00eb mendimet e tyre”: mendimtar\u00eb.
Shumica e ideve t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyera vijn\u00eb nga izolimi.
Mund t\u00eb shtriheni n\u00eb nj\u00eb dyshek gome. Ju mund t\u00eb b\u00ebni gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb nj\u00eb ekstrovert, madje edhe ta gjeni veten n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes. Gjithmon\u00eb do t\u00eb ket\u00eb koh\u00eb qet\u00ebsie m\u00eb von\u00eb.
Por edhe n\u00ebse keni nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb shtriheni n\u00eb disa situata, duhet t\u00eb ktheheni te vetja juaj e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb kur t\u00eb keni mbaruar.
Dy ose tre miq t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb n\u00ebnkuptojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00ebqind t\u00eb njohur (edhe pse njohjet jan\u00eb gjithashtu shum\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme).
Introvert\u00ebt dhe ekstrovert\u00ebt jan\u00eb yin dhe yang – ne e duam dhe kemi nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin.
Nuk ka problem n\u00ebse nuk doni t\u00eb flisni p\u00ebr er\u00ebn dhe ujin n\u00eb korridoret e shkoll\u00ebs.
Nuk duhet t\u00eb kesh z\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb lider. Merrni p\u00ebr shembull Mahatma Gandin.
Dhe duke qen\u00eb se p\u00ebrmend\u00ebm Gandin, ai ka th\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb: “N\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb but\u00eb mund ta shkundni bot\u00ebn”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Koh\u00ebt e fundit \u00ebsht\u00eb folur shum\u00eb p\u00ebr konceptin e introversionit, nj\u00eb koncept q\u00eb mund t\u00eb argumentohet \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb sinonim i periudh\u00ebs s\u00eb distancimit social q\u00eb po kalojm\u00eb. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00eb ata q\u00eb me t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar direktiv\u00ebn se duhet t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb koh\u00eb pa kontakte shoq\u00ebrore, u b\u00ebn\u00eb ankth dhe merak, por t\u00eb shumt\u00eb ishin edhe ne […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5043,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[521],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-5042","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-psikologji"},"yoast_head":"\n