Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e shkurt\u00ebr p\u00ebr t’u ndalur me “n\u00ebse” e zvarritje. Koha nuk pret ask\u00ebnd dhe ju nuk doni t\u00eb arrini n\u00eb fund dhe t\u00eb shikoni prapa me lot p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk keni guxuar kurr\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse guxoni dhe veproni, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn do ta dini rezultatin e veprimit tuaj, edhe n\u00ebse humbni. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb qet\u00ebsuese sesa t\u00eb mos dish fare se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb ndodhte n\u00ebse do t\u00eb b\u00ebsh nj\u00ebr\u00ebn dhe n\u00ebse do t\u00eb b\u00ebsh tjetr\u00ebn. Frika \u00ebsht\u00eb zakonisht ajo q\u00eb na pengon t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb duam, t\u00eb ndjekim \u00ebndrrat tona dhe t\u00eb nd\u00ebrmarrim rreziqe, t\u00eb shprehim at\u00eb q\u00eb ndjejm\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Frika t\u00eb ndryshme q\u00eb krijohen nga p\u00ebrvoja t\u00eb k\u00ebqija t\u00eb s\u00eb shkuar\u00ebs, nga traumat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb ose q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb pranishme n\u00eb gjenet tona. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb sfid\u00eb e madhe t\u00eb jemi n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb njohim frik\u00ebn ton\u00eb dhe t’i kap\u00ebrcejm\u00eb ato.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ndoshta betejat m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb luftojm\u00eb brenda vetes jan\u00eb me frik\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Ata q\u00eb na mbajn\u00eb mendjen rob\u00ebr n\u00eb nj\u00eb burg inekzistent. Megjithat\u00eb, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb luftojm\u00eb frik\u00ebn ton\u00eb dhe t\u00eb ecim drejt p\u00ebrmbushjes s\u00eb \u00ebndrrave dhe q\u00ebllimeve tona, ne fshihemi pas nj\u00eb “nuk kam koh\u00eb”. Jemi rehat. E l\u00ebm\u00eb koh\u00ebn t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb dhe n\u00eb fund ajo kalon pa e kuptuar dhe mbesim n\u00eb stanjacion. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mendja jon\u00eb duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb e lir\u00eb t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb veproj\u00eb pa zinxhir\u00ebt e frik\u00ebs. Zemrat tona duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb lira p\u00ebr t\u00eb dashuruar dhe shqisat tona t\u00eb lira p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndier. \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thon\u00eb njer\u00ebzit? Po sikur t\u00eb d\u00ebshtojm\u00eb? N\u00ebse na refuzojn\u00eb? Po sikur t\u00eb mos ia dal? Si do t\u00eb mbijetoj? N\u00ebse l\u00ebndohem? Kaq shum\u00eb frik\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb si gur\u00eb n\u00eb mendjet tona dhe nuk na l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb rritim krah\u00eb p\u00ebr t’i v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb praktik\u00eb mendimet tona. Shumica e pengesave q\u00eb shohim jan\u00eb inekzistente, ato jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm n\u00eb mendjet tona.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb vet\u00ebm shk\u00ebmbinj q\u00eb duhet t’i ngjitim dhe i shohim si male t\u00eb t\u00ebra. P\u00ebr t’iu afruar lumturis\u00eb dhe \u00ebndrrave tona, duhet t\u00eb rrezikojm\u00eb t\u00eb dalim jasht\u00eb zon\u00ebs son\u00eb t\u00eb rehatis\u00eb. Dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb nj\u00eb hap jasht\u00eb zon\u00ebs son\u00eb t\u00eb siguris\u00eb, s\u00eb pari duhet t\u00eb luftojm\u00eb frik\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Dhe n\u00ebse gjat\u00eb rrug\u00ebs b\u00ebjm\u00eb gabime, merre me qet\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vet\u00ebm vdekja \u00ebsht\u00eb e parregulluar. Dhe n\u00ebse na refuzojn\u00eb dhjet\u00eb her\u00eb, ne duam k\u00ebt\u00eb nj\u00eb shans. Dhe n\u00ebse l\u00ebndohemi n\u00eb dashuri, do t\u00eb biem p\u00ebrs\u00ebri n\u00eb dashuri, dhe n\u00ebse humbasim para, do ta b\u00ebjm\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri pak nga pak. N\u00ebse nuk b\u00ebni kurr\u00eb gabime, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se nuk po jetoni. Sepse jeta nuk vjen me nj\u00eb manual udh\u00ebzimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ndjenjat nuk vijn\u00eb as me nj\u00eb udh\u00ebzues p\u00ebrdoruesi. \u00cbsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni vazhdimisht dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebheni m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. T\u00eb dim\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb duam q\u00eb t\u00eb mund ta ndjekim at\u00eb. T\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb ekuilib\u00ebr mes “dua” dhe “mundem”. Le t\u00eb mos dor\u00ebzohemi me \u00e7do zhg\u00ebnjim. Le t\u00eb mos k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb gabuara q\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb \u00e7ojn\u00eb kurr\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi t\u00eb brendshme.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e shkurt\u00ebr p\u00ebr t’u ndalur me “n\u00ebse” e zvarritje. Koha nuk pret ask\u00ebnd dhe ju nuk doni t\u00eb arrini n\u00eb fund dhe t\u00eb shikoni prapa me lot p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk keni guxuar kurr\u00eb. N\u00ebse guxoni dhe veproni, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn do ta dini rezultatin e veprimit tuaj, edhe n\u00ebse humbni. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1293,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[589],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-4714","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-jeta"},"yoast_head":"\n