Inteligjenca emocionale \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga aft\u00ebsit\u00eb themelore sociale n\u00eb jet\u00eb, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb tep\u00ebr e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr suksesin personal dhe profesional, por shpesh anashkalohet dhe nuk diskutohet. Por cil\u00ebt jan\u00eb element\u00ebt q\u00eb na tregojn\u00eb se jemi n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e duhur p\u00ebr sa i p\u00ebrket zhvillimit t\u00eb saj?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
10 shenja q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se ne kemi zhvilluar inteligjenc\u00eb emocionale<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Inteligjenca emocionale \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga aft\u00ebsit\u00eb themelore sociale n\u00eb jet\u00eb, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb tep\u00ebr e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr suksesin personal dhe profesional, por shpesh anashkalohet dhe nuk diskutohet. Por cil\u00ebt jan\u00eb element\u00ebt q\u00eb na tregojn\u00eb se jemi n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e duhur p\u00ebr sa i p\u00ebrket zhvillimit t\u00eb saj? 10 shenja q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se ne kemi zhvilluar […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4221,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[521,590],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-4220","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-psikologji","8":"category-shoqeri"},"yoast_head":"\n
Ne v\u00ebzhgojm\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka – m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si dikush heziton para se t\u00eb flas\u00eb, m\u00ebnyra se si ndizen syt\u00eb kur dikush sheh dik\u00eb q\u00eb e do. Ne shpesh v\u00ebzhgojm\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb duket se u shp\u00ebton njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb dhe k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb logjik\u00ebn dhe motivet pas sjelljes s\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Ne duam t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb gjendjen njer\u00ebzore nga \u00e7do k\u00ebnd, sepse kjo na ndihmon t\u00eb fitojm\u00eb nj\u00eb imazh dhe perspektiv\u00eb p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb.<\/li>
Na p\u00eblqen t\u00eb flasim me njer\u00ebz nga kultura dhe prejardhje t\u00eb ndryshme, sepse na p\u00eblqen t\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb se si jetojn\u00eb njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb dhe \u00e7far\u00eb i b\u00ebn ata t\u00eb punojn\u00eb. Ne k\u00ebnaqemi me nd\u00ebrveprimet n\u00eb dukje t\u00eb rast\u00ebsishme me t\u00eb huajt, sepse atje shpesh mund t\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/li>
Ne i dim\u00eb element\u00ebt tan\u00eb q\u00eb nuk na b\u00ebjn\u00eb nj\u00eb person kaq ideal dhe jemi gjithashtu t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb na b\u00ebjn\u00eb v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj. Ne e dim\u00eb se kemi nj\u00eb zakon t\u00eb keq p\u00ebr t’i shtyr\u00eb detyrat deri n\u00eb minut\u00ebn e fundit ose mund t\u00eb dim\u00eb se mund t\u00eb mos jemi aq efektiv\u00eb n\u00eb komunikim ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, por duke qen\u00eb se jemi t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto, ne p\u00ebrpiqemi n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb aktive ta zgjidhim at\u00eb kur t\u00eb lind\u00eb.<\/li>
Nuk besojm\u00eb se t\u00eb jetosh n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn apo t\u00eb shpresosh p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen ka vler\u00eb k\u00ebtu, n\u00eb t\u00eb tashmen. Ne preferojm\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojm\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb po ndodh tani sa m\u00eb thell\u00eb dhe gjith\u00ebp\u00ebrfshir\u00ebse sa t\u00eb mundemi, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb rijetojm\u00eb kujtimet e s\u00eb djeshmes ose historit\u00eb e premtuara t\u00eb s\u00eb nes\u00ebrmes. Ne e kemi pranuar t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn ton\u00eb ashtu si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe e dim\u00eb q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb kthehemi m\u00eb pas, ashtu si\u00e7 kuptojm\u00eb se e ardhmja jon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr q\u00eb na p\u00eblqen ta jetojm\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb na dh\u00ebn\u00eb shpres\u00eb, por ende nuk e kemi p\u00ebrjetuar n\u00eb realitet. .<\/li>
Ne i p\u00ebrjetojm\u00eb emocionet tona teksa ndodhin me perspektiv\u00ebn p\u00ebr t’u p\u00ebrpjekur t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb sakt\u00ebsisht pse ndihemi k\u00ebshtu. Ne e kuptojm\u00eb se emocionet jan\u00eb m\u00ebnyra se si trupi yn\u00eb i p\u00ebrpunon mendimet dhe p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, ne p\u00ebrpiqemi t\u00eb ndryshojm\u00eb mendimet tona p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb dalim emocionalisht jasht\u00eb kontrollit.<\/li>
Kur lind nj\u00eb problem mes nesh dhe nj\u00eb personi tjet\u00ebr, ne preferojm\u00eb ta trajtojm\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb themi di\u00e7ka dhe ta l\u00ebm\u00eb t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb probleme t\u00eb mbetura mes nesh.<\/li>
Ne jetojm\u00eb p\u00ebr veten dhe motivet q\u00eb kemi brenda nesh. Ne d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb thon\u00eb njer\u00ebzit – bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00ebt, miqt\u00eb, prind\u00ebrit, njer\u00ebzit n\u00eb industrin\u00eb ton\u00eb – por n\u00eb fund, ne do t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb nj\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe arritje bazuar n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb na shtyn thell\u00eb brenda.<\/li>
Ndihemi t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuar kur jeta jon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e ndenjur, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb kur jemi n\u00eb nj\u00eb qet\u00ebsi t\u00eb gjat\u00eb, fillojm\u00eb t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb se si t\u00eb dalim prej saj. Ne fillojm\u00eb t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb p\u00ebr interesat tona, pun\u00ebn ton\u00eb, miqt\u00eb tan\u00eb, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet tona dhe se si mund t’i b\u00ebjm\u00eb gj\u00ebrat ndryshe p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsuar k\u00ebto fusha.<\/li>
Aq sa kuptojm\u00eb d\u00ebshirat e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve dhe duam t’i ndihmojm\u00eb ata, kuptojm\u00eb gjithashtu se \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e mira p\u00ebr ne dhe situat\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Ne nuk kemi frik\u00eb nga ndjenjat e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb dhe ju thoni jo kur \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme.<\/li>
Pasi t\u00eb ndiejm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb stimul delikate t\u00eb intuit\u00ebs son\u00eb q\u00eb na tregon se di\u00e7ka nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb rregull, ne e dim\u00eb se duhet t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb trupi yn\u00eb po na thot\u00eb dhe t\u00eb shikojm\u00eb pak m\u00eb thell\u00eb situat\u00ebn p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb vazhdojm\u00eb.<\/li><\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"