Diku n\u00eb vitet ’60 ose ’70, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb pak para ose pak pas, di\u00e7ka fillon t\u00eb na haj\u00eb brenda. Ose mund t\u00eb na ket\u00eb ngr\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb, por tani \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb aq e dukshme sa nuk mund ta l\u00ebm\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb ose jetojm\u00eb duken m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitshme, m\u00eb t\u00eb lodhshme. Shum\u00eb diskutime tani jan\u00eb t\u00eb pakuptimta, indiferente, procedurale. Njer\u00ebzit rreth nesh, n\u00eb pun\u00ebn ton\u00eb, n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb, n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb ton\u00eb, madje edhe n\u00eb shtratin ton\u00eb, b\u00ebhen t\u00eb bezdissh\u00ebm, indiferent\u00eb, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb si t\u00eb huaj apo edhe si armiq. Disa net\u00eb, ose shpesh, gjumi nuk vjen leht\u00eb. Ndoshta sepse di\u00e7ka nuk shkon. Ose shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nervat jan\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Jo domosdoshm\u00ebrisht sepse di\u00e7ka ka ndryshuar. Ose thjesht sepse asgj\u00eb nuk ka ndryshuar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb. Ose ndryshon vazhdimisht p\u00ebr keq. Po k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb fajin ton\u00eb. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jemi fajtor\u00eb p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka. T\u00eb tjer\u00ebt jan\u00eb faji yn\u00eb. T\u00eb tjer\u00ebt nuk e din\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb nuk shkon. Sikur rrobat nuk na rrin\u00eb. Jo sepse po sh\u00ebndoheshim, por ndoshta sepse di\u00e7ka nuk shkonte. Ose shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
E kuptojm\u00eb se ajo q\u00eb donim nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebtu. Dhe ndoshta nuk do t\u00eb jet\u00eb s\u00eb shpejti. Ndoshta kurr\u00eb, pasi ka mbetur nj\u00eb sasi e kufizuar n\u00eb or\u00ebn e r\u00ebr\u00ebs s\u00eb koh\u00ebs son\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Ne e kuptojm\u00eb se kemi jetuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrrall\u00eb, q\u00eb e kishim b\u00ebr\u00eb ose e kishim pranuar n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pand\u00ebrgjegjshme p\u00ebr t’iu p\u00ebrshtatur komoditetit ton\u00eb, frik\u00ebs son\u00eb, nevojave dhe pap\u00ebrshtatshm\u00ebrive t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve, m\u00ebsuesve, shefave, partner\u00ebve tan\u00eb. Sigurisht q\u00eb di\u00e7ka nuk shkon. Ose mir\u00eb shum\u00eb!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cKriza e mosh\u00ebs\u201d thon\u00eb disa. ose “kriza e mosh\u00ebs s\u00eb mesme”. Edhe pse dikush mund ta marr\u00eb at\u00eb n\u00eb 25, dhe ky \u00ebsht\u00eb fats i madh, ose n\u00eb 75, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb tragjedi. Megjithat\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kriz\u00eb moshe. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kriz\u00eb ndershm\u00ebrie! Ndershm\u00ebri ndaj vetes dhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Kur e shohim realitetin e ashp\u00ebr ashtu si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb. Kriza e ng\u00ebr\u00e7eve, zhg\u00ebnjimi, lodhja, zgjimi psikologjik, apo edhe shpirt\u00ebror. Mund t\u00eb duket si nj\u00eb k\u00ebrcim i papritur, por nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ashtu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ashtu si ruajtja e nj\u00eb ushqimi n\u00eb tenxhere p\u00ebr vite apo edhe dekada, duke e mbajtur atje vazhdimisht duke e ngrohur dhe duke e ngr\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb ringrohur, duke dehidratuar dhe duke humbur aromat e tij gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb, dhe s\u00eb fundi duke djegur dhe marr\u00eb er\u00eb t\u00eb keqe. N\u00eb fillim period e asaj q\u00eb b\u00ebhej ishte thuajse e perceptueshme dhe ndoshta nuk e kishim kuptuar se nga vinte. \u00cbsht\u00eb nga fqinji? Por her\u00ebt a von\u00eb dukej se ishte nga ne, nga tenxherja jon\u00eb dhe tani mban er\u00eb fort, shum\u00eb fort\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kriz\u00eb pesimizmi. As nuk do t\u00eb largohet n\u00ebse ne \u201cmendojm\u00eb pozitivisht\u201d. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebtu sepse her\u00ebt a von\u00eb do t\u00eb vinte. Dhe kur t\u00eb vij\u00eb koha q\u00eb ushqimi t\u00eb digjet dhe t\u00eb nuhas\u00eb keq, nuk mbulohet me asgj\u00eb! Period e asaj q\u00eb b\u00ebhet \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebtu, e domosdoshme, imponuese, dep\u00ebrtuese, pasi tani na ka ujitur rrobat, l\u00ebkur\u00ebn, mendjen, shpirtin ton\u00eb. Dhe n\u00ebse shkojm\u00eb ta ruajm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb ushqim t\u00eb djegur dhe ta konsumojm\u00eb s\u00ebrish, period e tij do t\u00eb na kujtoj\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb djegur, se \u00ebsht\u00eb prishur, se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ushqim i parakohsh\u00ebm. Ne nuk e meritojm\u00eb ushqimin e gatuar, apo jo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ndoshta \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb djegur dhe nuk hahet m\u00eb me asgj\u00eb, pra, \u00e7far\u00eb doni t\u00eb hani tani q\u00eb ushqimi juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb djegur? A jeni i gatsh\u00ebm t\u00eb b\u00ebni pik\u00ebrisht at\u00eb q\u00eb ju p\u00eblqen? A rrezikoni t\u00eb provoni recetat? Dhe paguani p\u00ebr koston e materialeve? Dhe ndani at\u00eb me bashk\u00ebpun\u00ebtor\u00ebt e rinj n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme? A mendoni akoma p\u00ebr t\u00eb dhe e lini koh\u00ebn t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Diku n\u00eb vitet ’60 ose ’70, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb pak para ose pak pas, di\u00e7ka fillon t\u00eb na haj\u00eb brenda. Ose mund t\u00eb na ket\u00eb ngr\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb, por tani \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb aq e dukshme sa nuk mund ta l\u00ebm\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb. Gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb ose jetojm\u00eb duken m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitshme, m\u00eb t\u00eb lodhshme. Shum\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3741,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[521,590],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-4183","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-psikologji","8":"category-shoqeri"},"yoast_head":"\n