Ajo q\u00eb ndodhi me ju nuk ishte faji juaj. Nuk ishte di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ti k\u00ebrkoje dhe sigurisht nuk ishte di\u00e7ka q\u00eb e meritoje. Ajo q\u00eb ju ndodhi nuk ishte aspak e drejt\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ju mund t\u00eb keni qen\u00eb nj\u00eb viktim\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrleshjen dhe n\u00eb p\u00ebrplasjen e dikujt tjet\u00ebr, mund t\u00eb keni qen\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb second, mund t\u00eb keni qen\u00eb nj\u00eb kalimtar i pafajsh\u00ebm, por jeni plagosur thell\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u00eb gjith\u00eb jemi t\u00eb l\u00ebnduar nga jeta, disa prej nesh nga keq b\u00ebrjet tragjike, t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt nga dhimbja e pa p\u00ebrpunuar dhe emocionet e margjinalizuara. Pavar\u00ebsisht nga burimi, t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve na jepet radha p\u00ebr t\u00eb luajtur, edhe n\u00ebse nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb loja jon\u00eb me fats.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Por ajo q\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb harrojm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb se edhe n\u00ebse di\u00e7ka nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb faji yn\u00eb, sh\u00ebrimi bie gjithmon\u00eb mbi ne – dhe n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb kufizohemi prej tij, ne mund t\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb ta shohim at\u00eb si nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb t\u00eb rrall\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sh\u00ebrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia jon\u00eb, sepse n\u00ebse nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb, nj\u00eb gjendje e padrejt\u00eb b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb jet\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e kemi b\u00ebr\u00eb. Sh\u00ebrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia jon\u00eb sepse dhimbja e patrajtuar do t’u kalohet t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve p\u00ebrreth nesh dhe ne nuk duhet t\u00eb lejojm\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb ajo q\u00eb na ndodhi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sh\u00ebrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia jon\u00eb sepse ne kemi k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb vetme, k\u00ebt\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb vetme p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb di\u00e7ka t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. Sh\u00ebrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia jon\u00eb sepse ne duam q\u00eb jeta jon\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb ndryshe dhe n\u00ebse presim q\u00eb dikush tjet\u00ebr ta b\u00ebj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebr ne, ndryshimi ndoshta nuk do t\u00eb vij\u00eb kurr\u00eb. E vetmja gj\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb fitojm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb var\u00ebsia dhe hidh\u00ebrimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sh\u00ebrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia jon\u00eb, sepse ne kemi fuqin\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebrojm\u00eb veten, edhe n\u00ebse n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn na kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb besojm\u00eb se nuk mundemi. Dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb puna jon\u00eb, sepse kura nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhemi si\u00e7 ishim m\u00eb par\u00eb, por di\u00e7ka m\u00eb e fort\u00eb, m\u00eb e men\u00e7ur dhe m\u00eb e mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kur sh\u00ebrohemi, b\u00ebhemi njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb kemi dashur t\u00eb jemi. Ne jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb metabolizojm\u00eb dhimbjen, ne mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb nj\u00eb ndryshim t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb, n\u00eb familjet tona dhe n\u00eb komunitetet ku jetojm\u00eb. Ne mund t\u00eb ndjekim \u00ebndrrat tona me m\u00eb shum\u00eb liri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne fitojm\u00eb fuqin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb menaxhuar at\u00eb q\u00eb na hedh jeta, sepse b\u00ebhemi t\u00eb vet\u00eb-mjaftuesh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb sigurt p\u00ebr veten ton\u00eb. Jemi m\u00eb t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm t\u00eb guxojm\u00eb, t\u00eb rrezikojm\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Problemi \u00ebsht\u00eb se kur vjen dikush tjet\u00ebr dhe na b\u00ebn di\u00e7ka t\u00eb keqe, ne shpesh rrim\u00eb duke pritur q\u00eb dikush t\u00eb marr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dhimbje, k\u00ebt\u00eb pesh\u00eb. Shum\u00eb her\u00eb nuk arrijm\u00eb t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb se m\u00ebsimet m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb jet\u00ebs jan\u00eb k\u00ebto situata; ato na japin materialet e nd\u00ebrtimit p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar at\u00eb q\u00eb duam.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ajo q\u00eb ndodhi me ju nuk ishte faji juaj. Nuk ishte di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ti k\u00ebrkoje dhe sigurisht nuk ishte di\u00e7ka q\u00eb e meritoje. Ajo q\u00eb ju ndodhi nuk ishte aspak e drejt\u00eb. Ju mund t\u00eb keni qen\u00eb nj\u00eb viktim\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrleshjen dhe n\u00eb p\u00ebrplasjen e dikujt tjet\u00ebr, mund t\u00eb keni qen\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb second, mund […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3744,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[522,521],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4172","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-depresion","category-psikologji"],"yoast_head":"\n