Dashuria dhe frika jan\u00eb dy shprehjet themelore t\u00eb shpirtit njer\u00ebzor, ato jan\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjes dhe nuk mund t\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetojn\u00eb kurr\u00eb. \u00c7do gj\u00eb shfaqet dhe zhduket n\u00eb sfondin e dashuris\u00eb. E v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebnga e drit\u00ebs s\u00eb dashuris\u00eb. Iluzioni \u00ebsht\u00eb klithma e err\u00ebsir\u00ebs s\u00eb frik\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne jetojm\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb epok\u00eb ndryshimesh dhe trazirash t\u00eb shpejta n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb globin. Ku forca q\u00eb duan t’i udh\u00ebheqin shoq\u00ebrit\u00eb n\u00eb drejtime t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta, p\u00ebr t’i sh\u00ebrbyer interesave t\u00eb tyre, sepse shoq\u00ebrit\u00eb jan\u00eb inkubator\u00ebt e p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsimit dhe zgjerimit t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjes njer\u00ebzore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bota jon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb aren\u00eb konflikti midis kampeve rivale te interesit, ku i gjith\u00eb respekti p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn dhe zgjedhja e lir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb humbur. \u00c7do mjet p\u00ebrdoret p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00ebrhequr v\u00ebmendjen ton\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mund t\u00eb vendosim dhe t\u00eb veprojm\u00eb n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb frik\u00ebs, pasiguris\u00eb, munges\u00ebs dhe stresit. Dhe k\u00ebshtu ne biem leht\u00eb viktima t\u00eb sistemeve t\u00eb manipulimit q\u00eb synojn\u00eb t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb konfuzion, kontroll mbi jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Dhe shum\u00eb her\u00eb ndihemi si kukulla me duar t\u00eb fshehura q\u00eb l\u00ebvizin fijet tona dhe na drejtojn\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb peizazh t\u00eb vrenjtur dhe t\u00eb rrem\u00eb. Ne mendojm\u00eb se nuk ka rrug\u00ebdalje, se nuk kemi zgjidhje, ndihemi t\u00eb bllokuar, t\u00eb vet\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb humbur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
“Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shenj\u00eb e mire e sh\u00ebndetit t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatesh me nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb thell\u00eb.“<\/strong> Krishnamurti<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n Viti i fundit ishte nj\u00eb vit i “dram\u00ebs” gjat\u00eb s\u00eb cil\u00ebs t\u00eb gjith\u00eb u kap\u00ebm, pak a shum\u00eb, n\u00eb rrjetat e paranoj\u00ebs kolektive, duke l\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb jet\u00ebn dhe zhvillimin ton\u00eb personal. Dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb ligj universal dhe imagjinata \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra se si universi komunikon me ne. Pra, le t\u00eb imagjinojm\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb re, m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar. Asgj\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamundur p\u00ebr imagjinat\u00ebn. Dhe n\u00ebse nuk kontrollojm\u00eb mendjen dhe imagjinat\u00ebn ton\u00eb, t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt do ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb at\u00eb p\u00ebr ne \u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ne duhet t\u00eb vendosim p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb nga nj\u00eb vend lirie dhe dashurie. Kur vendimet tona jan\u00eb rezultat i frik\u00ebs, jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb nuk i sh\u00ebrbejn\u00eb pjekuris\u00eb dhe evolucionit ton\u00eb, por ato degradojn\u00eb ekzistenc\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Trupi yn\u00eb e njeh t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn ton\u00eb, dashuria e forcon at\u00eb, frika e b\u00ebn at\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A<\/strong> do ta ndri\u00e7osh bot\u00ebn me dashurin\u00eb t\u00ebnde<\/strong> apo do ta hedh\u00ebsh n\u00eb err\u00ebsir\u00eb \u200b\u200bme frik\u00ebn t\u00ebnde? <\/strong>Zgjedhja \u00ebsht\u00eb e juaja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n “N\u00ebse heq dashurin\u00eb, toka \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb varr.” Robert Browning<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Dashuria dhe frika jan\u00eb dy shprehjet themelore t\u00eb shpirtit njer\u00ebzor, ato jan\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjes dhe nuk mund t\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetojn\u00eb kurr\u00eb. \u00c7do gj\u00eb shfaqet dhe zhduket n\u00eb sfondin e dashuris\u00eb. E v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebnga e drit\u00ebs s\u00eb dashuris\u00eb. Iluzioni \u00ebsht\u00eb klithma e err\u00ebsir\u00ebs s\u00eb frik\u00ebs. Ne jetojm\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb epok\u00eb ndryshimesh dhe trazirash t\u00eb shpejta […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4150,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[521,590],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-4149","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-psikologji","8":"category-shoqeri"},"yoast_head":"\n
Ndjej se tani, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se kurr\u00eb, ka nj\u00eb nevoj\u00eb urgjente p\u00ebr t’u kthyer brenda vetes dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb hedhur drit\u00eb mbi imperativat e zemrave dhe shpirtrave tan\u00eb q\u00eb jan\u00eb “mbytur” nga ankthi, pasiguria dhe frika, cil\u00ebsi t\u00eb huaja p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb. Esht\u00eb e domosdoshme q\u00eb ne t\u00eb gjejm\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn brenda vetes, e cila do t\u00eb na udh\u00ebheq\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr oqeanet e hipokrizis\u00eb dhe mashtrimit. Ne duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrq\u00ebndrojm\u00eb q\u00ebllimin ton\u00eb dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrq\u00ebndrohemi n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb na fuqizon dhe i jep kuptim jet\u00ebs son\u00eb. Ne duhet t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb se ne jemi zot\u00ebr t\u00eb fatit ton\u00eb dhe mos harroni se \u00e7do ndryshim i jasht\u00ebm fillon me nj\u00eb ndryshim t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm. Dhe ne jemi vet\u00ebm p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb ndryshim. Ndryshimi fillon me krijimin e nj\u00eb vizioni, fillon me imagjinat\u00ebn ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n