Kur shpirti yn\u00eb l\u00ebndohet dhe ndjen dhimbje dhe zem\u00ebrim, ka shum\u00eb t\u00eb ngjar\u00eb q\u00eb ai t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb t\u00eb hakmerret ndaj personit q\u00eb e ka hidh\u00ebruar. Hakmarrja n\u00eb at\u00eb moment duket si nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qet\u00ebsuar egon e tij t\u00eb plagosur duke i shkaktuar dhimbje personit q\u00eb ai mendon se i ka shkaktuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hakmarrja \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb akt q\u00eb nuk ka fuqi t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia q\u00eb jep \u00ebsht\u00eb plot\u00ebsisht e p\u00ebrkohshme. E keqja q\u00eb na ka ndodhur, sado e pak\u00ebndshme t\u00eb jet\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta, ekziston n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb dhe ka ndodhur. \u00c7far\u00ebdo q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb, ne kurr\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb jemi n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb kthehemi pas n\u00eb koh\u00eb, e keqja ka ndodhur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hakmarrja na l\u00ebndon gjithashtu, sepse personi q\u00eb na ka l\u00ebnduar do t\u00eb ndiej\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb urrejtje p\u00ebr ne dhe do t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb t\u00eb na d\u00ebmtoj\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb keqe dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb dhimbshme. M\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, pavar\u00ebsisht se sa shum\u00eb na ka l\u00ebnduar, ta l\u00ebm\u00eb pas, sesa t\u00eb jetojm\u00eb vazhdimisht me frik\u00ebn se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb keq personi tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb na b\u00ebr\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hakmarrja \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb akt i kot\u00eb, sepse para s\u00eb gjithash na d\u00ebmton ne dhe shpirtin ton\u00eb. N\u00eb thelb, ju e njollosni shpirtin tuaj dhe e humbni veten n\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje t\u00eb pafund p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebmtuar nj\u00eb qenie tjet\u00ebr njer\u00ebzore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Si rezultat, ju humbni jet\u00ebn tuaj, kaloni koh\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb \u00e7muar dhe mbushni t\u00ebr\u00eb shpirtin tuaj me urrejtje. Nuk ia vlen t\u00eb humbas\u00ebsh jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde t\u00eb \u00e7muar p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb nuk e meritojn\u00eb at\u00eb. Duke u hakmarr\u00eb mbi te gjitha, ju i tregoni tjetrit se e keqja e tij ka mposhtur dhe ndryshuar karakterin tuaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vet\u00eb jeta fsheh drejt\u00ebsin\u00eb brenda saj. Her\u00ebt a von\u00eb, secili person do t\u00eb thirret t\u00eb jap\u00eb llogari p\u00ebr veprimet e veta dhe t\u00eb jap\u00eb llogari p\u00ebr ta n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb sesa planet tona. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ne mund t\u00eb l\u00ebm\u00eb jet\u00ebn, universin, Zotin, kudo q\u00eb dikush beson, p\u00ebr t\u2019ia kthyer t\u00eb keqen atij q\u00eb na ka l\u00ebnduar dhe jo p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndotur shpirtrat tan\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hakmarrja nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb akt q\u00eb sjell paqe, nuk ofron leht\u00ebsim dhe nxit urrejtjen. Le t\u00eb praktikojm\u00eb dhurat\u00ebn e \u00e7muar t\u00eb faljes, e cila do t\u00eb na sjell\u00eb dobi fizikisht dhe mendore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Kur shpirti yn\u00eb l\u00ebndohet dhe ndjen dhimbje dhe zem\u00ebrim, ka shum\u00eb t\u00eb ngjar\u00eb q\u00eb ai t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb t\u00eb hakmerret ndaj personit q\u00eb e ka hidh\u00ebruar. Hakmarrja n\u00eb at\u00eb moment duket si nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qet\u00ebsuar egon e tij t\u00eb plagosur duke i shkaktuar dhimbje personit q\u00eb ai mendon se i ka shkaktuar. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3650,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[522,521],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-4113","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-depresion","8":"category-psikologji"},"yoast_head":"\n