“\u00c7far\u00eb po b\u00ebj gabim; Pse personi tjet\u00ebr nuk mund t\u00eb shoh\u00eb tek un\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb shohin t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt? A nuk jam valle n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, aspak e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A ka m\u00eb n\u00eb fund t\u00eb drejt\u00eb? Un\u00eb nuk e di m\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb besoj. “Un\u00eb thjesht ndihem i pasigurt dhe nj\u00eb nyj\u00eb e fort\u00eb n\u00eb stomakun tim q\u00eb nuk thot\u00eb t\u00eb ik\u00eb sa her\u00eb q\u00eb mendoj p\u00ebr t\u00eb.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Un\u00eb do t’ju them k\u00ebt\u00eb dhe do ta mbaj: Vlera juaj nuk zvog\u00eblohet nga paaft\u00ebsia e dikujt p\u00ebr ta par\u00eb at\u00eb. N\u00ebse personi tjet\u00ebr nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb vler\u00ebsoj\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb keni p\u00ebr t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb, ai mund t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb mjaft i pjekur. Sido q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb problemi i tij, jo i juaji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse dikush ka miopi dhe nuk i sheh shkronjat n\u00eb kinema, \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thuash? Ndoshta shkronjat nuk kan\u00eb kuptim n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit dhe jan\u00eb nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb formash t\u00eb shtremb\u00ebruara ose thjesht “shkoni t\u00eb vendosni Syzet” tek personi q\u00eb ka problemin? P\u00ebrgjigja \u00ebsht\u00eb e qart\u00eb. Ndoshta kjo duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigja jon\u00eb kur dikush nuk beson m\u00eb tek ne, na p\u00ebrbuz, na konsideron nj\u00eb zgjedhje t\u00eb dyt\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dhe mos lejoni q\u00eb vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsimi yn\u00eb t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb tek xhuxhat dhe ne kalojm\u00eb dit\u00eb e net\u00eb duke analizuar situatat problematike n\u00eb kok\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Dhe t\u00eb mos shpenzojm\u00eb koh\u00eb dhe energji p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk na b\u00ebn t\u00eb lumtur. Sepse vlera jon\u00eb nuk zvog\u00eblohet nga paaft\u00ebsia e dikujt p\u00ebr ta par\u00eb at\u00eb. Sepse koha \u00ebsht\u00eb forma m\u00eb e \u00e7muar e energjis\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn as paraja nuk mund ta blej\u00eb. Dhe jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb e shkurt\u00ebr dhe potenciali i saj \u00ebsht\u00eb i madh p\u00ebr t\u00eb pritur pak, me mire disa th\u00ebrrime dashurie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sepse ju nuk meritoni disa th\u00ebrrime dashurie, ju meritoni gjith\u00e7ka. Dhe kushdo q\u00eb t\u00eb shtyn ta pyes\u00ebsh k\u00ebt\u00eb dhe mendon se \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb duash – mendoj se \u00e7far\u00eb – nuk ka vend n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. Pse Sepse merr hap\u00ebsir\u00eb \u200b\u200bnga njer\u00ebz q\u00eb mund t’ju japin plot\u00ebsisht dhe t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb di\u00e7ka s\u00eb bashku. Gj\u00ebja juaj. Dhe nj\u00eb gj\u00eb e fundit: mbani mend gjithmon\u00eb se armiku juaj m\u00eb i madh nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ve\u00e7se mendja juaj kur kthehet p\u00ebrmbys, bie n\u00eb gracka, ka tendenca vet\u00ebshkat\u00ebrruese dhe obsesive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Por nga ana tjet\u00ebr, ju jeni Zoti i mendjes suaj. Dhe sapo t\u00eb kuptoni shfryt\u00ebzimin q\u00eb po ndodh n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj, ju keni nj\u00eb zgjedhje. A duhet t\u00eb largohem apo t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj? T\u00eb lutem shko. “Por kam frik\u00eb se mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj m\u00eb keq.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mos kini frik\u00eb, m\u00eb e keqja tashm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebtu. Dilni nga prangat e mendjes tuaj dhe vazhdoni p\u00ebrpara. Ndiqni diellin, ndiqni buz\u00ebqeshjen, ndiqni ngroht\u00ebsin\u00eb. Ata do t’ju \u00e7ojn\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e duhur. Sepse ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb duhet t\u00eb harrojm\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb “duam” p\u00ebr t\u00eb kujtuar at\u00eb q\u00eb meritojm\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sepse vlera jon\u00eb nuk zvog\u00eblohet nga paaft\u00ebsia e dikujt p\u00ebr ta par\u00eb at\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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“\u00c7far\u00eb po b\u00ebj gabim; Pse personi tjet\u00ebr nuk mund t\u00eb shoh\u00eb tek un\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb shohin t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt? A nuk jam valle n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, aspak e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb? A ka m\u00eb n\u00eb fund t\u00eb drejt\u00eb? Un\u00eb nuk e di m\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb besoj. “Un\u00eb thjesht ndihem i pasigurt dhe nj\u00eb nyj\u00eb e fort\u00eb n\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3563,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[521,590],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-4097","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-psikologji","8":"category-shoqeri"},"yoast_head":"\n