Nj\u00eb histori e lasht\u00eb amerikane vendase pretendon se njeriu ka dy ujq\u00ebr brenda tij, nj\u00eb ujk t\u00eb bardh\u00eb q\u00eb mbetet i \u00ebmb\u00ebl dhe i qet\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr i zi, i zi si err\u00ebsira e thell\u00eb e nat\u00ebs q\u00eb na shtyn t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb keq, t\u00eb flasim keq. Sipas k\u00ebsaj historie antike, k\u00ebta dy ujq\u00ebr jan\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb konflikt t\u00eb vazhduesh\u00ebm, i cili mbizot\u00ebron dhe q\u00eb ushqejm\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u00ebt\u00eb histori t\u00eb bukur e lexova diku rast\u00ebsisht dhe prej dit\u00ebsh tani m\u00eb endet n\u00eb mendje, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb e d\u00ebgjoj t\u00eb ting\u00eblloj\u00eb n\u00eb mendjen time, i peshoj fjal\u00ebt e saj nj\u00eb nga nj\u00eb dhe trembem kur kuptoj se edhe un\u00eb kam dy ujq. Nj\u00ebri i qet\u00eb dhe i qeshur m\u00eb shikon me dashuri dhe tjetri i eg\u00ebr m\u00eb shikon me dy sy t\u00eb ndezur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shume e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb jesh i rritur, v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb jesh n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb mbijetosh n\u00eb kaosin e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme. Bashk\u00ebveprimi me njer\u00ebzit \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb kompleks sesa guxoj t\u00eb them. Un\u00eb mendoj se sa leht\u00eb nj\u00eb koment i rast\u00ebsish\u00ebm nga dikush i njohur ose plot\u00ebsisht i panjohur mund t’ju prish\u00eb humorin. Pyes veten se \u00e7do gjurm\u00eb mir\u00ebsjelljeje dhe gjykimi ka humbur dhe kryesisht sepse kemi nj\u00eb nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrhapur t\u00eb keqen rreth nesh dhe jo di\u00e7ka t\u00eb bukur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ju patjet\u00ebr q\u00eb keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb arm\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb t\u00eb jeni n\u00eb gjendje ta lini ujkun e zi duke agj\u00ebruar. Ju patjet\u00ebr duhet t\u00eb jeni n\u00eb harmoni me egon tuaj. T\u00eb mos i keni mbivler\u00ebsuar aft\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaja por edhe t\u00eb dini vler\u00ebn tuaj. T\u00eb duash veten, jo n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb egoiste plot arroganc\u00eb, me at\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs q\u00eb p\u00ebrmban kujdes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pra, pasi t\u00eb keni ekuilibruar mir\u00eb n\u00eb litarin e ngusht\u00eb t\u00eb egos tuaj, duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni t\u00eb keni d\u00ebgjim selektiv. Keni nj\u00eb filt\u00ebr t\u00eb paduksh\u00ebm q\u00eb heq bisedat e k\u00ebqija. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e \u00e7uditshme q\u00eb ne themi se fjal\u00ebt jan\u00eb zogj q\u00eb fluturojn\u00eb larg dhe megjithat\u00eb ata q\u00eb p\u00ebrmbajn\u00eb mjaft doz\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00eb keqes kan\u00eb aft\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb ulen rrotull n\u00eb mendimet tona, t\u00eb vrapojn\u00eb rreth tij dhe t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb nj\u00eb forc\u00eb t\u00eb pakontrollueshme t\u00eb s\u00eb keqes, e cila nga ana tjet\u00ebr na shtyn t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb mendime t\u00eb k\u00ebqija, konspiracione p\u00ebr t\u00eb rikthyer gjakun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fiks i gjith\u00eb ky proces q\u00eb ushqen ujkun e zi. Ky rreth vicioz mendimesh q\u00eb na mban t\u00eb bllokuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb t\u00eb keqe dhe nuk na ofron asnj\u00eb paqe n\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj shton stres dhe energji negative.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fjal\u00ebt jan\u00eb v\u00ebrtet zogj q\u00eb fluturojn\u00eb larg. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur t\u00eb p\u00eblqehet nga t\u00eb gjith\u00eb dhe natyrisht nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur t\u00eb jesh i pagabuesh\u00ebm. Por pse duhet t\u00eb kujdesemi p\u00ebr mendimin e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve? Biseda me leht\u00ebsi q\u00eb do t\u00eb na hedh\u00eb nj\u00eb kalimtar? Pse t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohesh me nj\u00eb fraz\u00eb t\u00eb rast\u00ebsishme?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eshte e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebsh fjal\u00ebt t\u00eb fluturojn\u00eb, sidomos n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e sotme ku ekspozimi pro-vetvetes n\u00eb mediat sociale, u jep mund\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb nj\u00eb mendim rreth nesh nga profili yn\u00eb n\u00eb internet pa na njohur. Por, \u00e7ka n\u00ebse nj\u00eb dit\u00eb vendosni t\u00eb mos d\u00ebgjoni fjal\u00ebt e k\u00ebqija?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Me siguri dit\u00ebn e par\u00eb do t\u00eb d\u00ebshtoni, dit\u00ebn e dyt\u00eb do t\u00eb anashkaloni gjysm\u00ebn e t\u00eb k\u00ebqijave dhe p\u00ebr rreth nj\u00eb jav\u00eb do t\u00eb ndjeni nj\u00eb paqe t\u00eb brendshme. N\u00eb fakt, n\u00ebse d\u00ebgjoni muzik\u00eb dhe lexoni ndonj\u00eb lib\u00ebr gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs, s\u00eb shpejti jeta juaj do t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00eb nj\u00eb cil\u00ebsi tjet\u00ebr, ujku i zi do t\u00eb flej\u00eb i qet\u00eb brenda jush dhe e bardha do t’ju buz\u00ebqesh\u00eb me dashuri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Por ajo q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb proces \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb nd\u00ebrsa largoheni nga t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto mendime negative q\u00eb jan\u00eb nj\u00eb burim toksik i energjis\u00eb negative, aq m\u00eb i qart\u00eb do t\u00eb jet\u00eb mendimi juaj dhe natyrisht qart\u00ebsia e mendimit na \u00e7on n\u00eb korrigjimin e p\u00ebrfundimeve dhe l\u00ebvizjeve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pra, n\u00ebse doni q\u00eb ky Shtator t\u00eb jet\u00eb rasti p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka t\u00eb re, p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka ndryshe filloni t\u00eb luani loj\u00ebn me dy ujq\u00ebrit, duke l\u00ebn\u00eb pa ushqim at\u00eb ujk t\u00eb zi q\u00eb vazhdon t\u00eb na mbaj\u00eb rob i nj\u00eb realiteti negativ dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb rast p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos par\u00eb ana e bukur e jet\u00ebs. N\u00eb fakt, n\u00ebse jeni pak bujar, m\u00ebsoni t’u jepni buz\u00ebqeshjen tuaj m\u00eb t\u00eb gjer\u00eb kritik\u00ebve tuaj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nj\u00eb histori e lasht\u00eb amerikane vendase pretendon se njeriu ka dy ujq\u00ebr brenda tij, nj\u00eb ujk t\u00eb bardh\u00eb q\u00eb mbetet i \u00ebmb\u00ebl dhe i qet\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr i zi, i zi si err\u00ebsira e thell\u00eb e nat\u00ebs q\u00eb na shtyn t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb keq, t\u00eb flasim keq. Sipas k\u00ebsaj historie antike, k\u00ebta dy ujq\u00ebr jan\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":3756,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[521,1,345],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-3752","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-psikologji","8":"category-te-ndryshme","9":"category-uncategorized"},"yoast_head":"\n