Veprimet tona shum\u00eb her\u00eb gjat\u00eb jet\u00ebs son\u00eb mund t\u00eb d\u00ebmtojn\u00eb emocionalisht njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb. At\u00ebher\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjja jon\u00eb, n\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjen e saj p\u00ebr t\u00eb korrigjuar nj\u00eb situat\u00eb kaq t\u00eb trishtuar, k\u00ebrkon falje nga njeriu q\u00eb u l\u00ebndua n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ai vet\u00eb t\u00eb mund t\u00eb shpengohej.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Duke shkruar dhe lexuar rregullisht se si mund t’i falim t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb t\u00eb njohim gabimet tona dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb falje kur \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme. T\u00eb k\u00ebrkosh falje nga shum\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb par\u00eb si nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb dob\u00ebsie, pasi i tregon tjetrit an\u00ebn t\u00ebnde t\u00eb prekshme. N\u00eb fakt, shum\u00eb e p\u00ebrshkruajn\u00eb at\u00eb si nj\u00eb veprim t\u00eb kot\u00eb, pasi e keqja \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb dhe nuk mund t\u00eb korrigjohet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Por e v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb se ai q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon falje ka b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb pun\u00eb t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyeshme: ai ka llogaritur m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb individual tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb at\u00eb second dhe ka kap\u00ebrcyer egoizmin e tij. Ai nuk heziton t\u00eb p\u00ebrulet dhe t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb pendimin e tij praktik. Edhe n\u00ebse nuk mund ta kthejm\u00eb koh\u00ebn n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos mund t\u00eb shkaktonim plag\u00ebn emocionale, duke k\u00ebrkuar falje i tregojm\u00eb personit tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb jemi penduar p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb ndodhi dhe d\u00ebshirojm\u00eb t\u00eb korrigjojm\u00eb t\u00eb keqen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse personi tjet\u00ebr nuk e pranon faljen, at\u00ebher\u00eb b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr veten e tij, ne b\u00ebm\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje dhe pat\u00ebm guximin t\u00eb pranonim se ishim gabim. Dhe n\u00eb at\u00eb second, kjo vet\u00ebdije na ndihmon t\u00eb piqemi m\u00eb shum\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrisht dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb nj\u00eb hap m\u00eb af\u00ebr vet\u00eb-njohjes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u00ebrkoni falje kur b\u00ebjm\u00eb nj\u00eb gabim dhe v\u00ebrtet l\u00ebndojm\u00eb dik\u00eb. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb turp, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dob\u00ebsi, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb munges\u00eb e vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsimit. Esht\u00eb nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb e nj\u00eb njeriu trim q\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetet m\u00eb shum\u00eb tek nj\u00eb njeri sesa egoizmi i tij.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Veprimet tona shum\u00eb her\u00eb gjat\u00eb jet\u00ebs son\u00eb mund t\u00eb d\u00ebmtojn\u00eb emocionalisht njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb. At\u00ebher\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjja jon\u00eb, n\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjen e saj p\u00ebr t\u00eb korrigjuar nj\u00eb situat\u00eb kaq t\u00eb trishtuar, k\u00ebrkon falje nga njeriu q\u00eb u l\u00ebndua n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ai vet\u00eb t\u00eb mund t\u00eb shpengohej. Duke shkruar dhe lexuar rregullisht se si mund t’i falim […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3563,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[180],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-3561","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-kulture"},"yoast_head":"\n